A hand shake. It is a simple act of reaching out to someone and welcoming then into your space. It is also a closure to our time together. Men have been shaking hands for years. Men for centuries have shook hands to close a business deal. From a hand shake men could tell if a man was honest, weak, or a good businessman. Men usually never shook hands with women. Up until the 1060's if a man was introduced to a woman she would be acknowledged by a nod and a smile. In earlier years men of statue would gently hold the woman's hand and even kiss the top of the hand. Women entered the world of business, and the female gender started extending their hands. I always shake hands with people I meet and when they leave. I want them to know I welcome them to me, and I want them to know my name. I can tell when people don't want me in their space as they back away as I extend my hand. At an open house the "casual" shopper is shy to shake hands and exchange names. I don't care what their level of interest is, I still feel they should get a firm hand shake and hear my name. That limp hand shake is the worst. You almost think the person is not healthy. Often I will take my other hand and clasp our hands together to give them support. I want people to feel good about our time together and hope they will leave with a smile. A good feeling spreads with a smile and warm greeting. Try it this weekend. Shake the hands of those you meet, tell them clearly your name, and smile at them. I know if you come to my opens this weekend, I will be doing that to you.
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